We Need Trans Self Love Now
Self love has enabled me to find relationships that sustain me. It has enabled me to extricate myself from harmful structures and find ways that are aligned with my values and fulfill my needs. It has allowed me to course correct without getting completely overwhelmed with self-doubt. It has helped me to hold the struggles, pain, trauma, and resilience of others. It has created space in me to witness myself and my community. I practice self love imperfectly, with a great deal of stopping and starting, wobbling, faltering, and frustration. But I continue to practice it, and imperfectly or not, my life continues to change as a result.