Supporting you through your
unique gender journey.

The Gender Doula offers full-spectrum support for you or your family across the spectrum of gender questioning, exploration, & transition.

Signing up gets you the most current information about The Gender Doula. Everyone who signs up immediately receive a free download of my Gender Exploration mini-workbook - a guided journey through gender exploration from my own unique perspective.

Could I be trans?

This question, for many, is the start of a journey. Gender exploration takes time, and you may be surprised by what you find as you feel into yourself, your history, your values, and your body. Having resources to support you through this process is vital.

Everyone has different levels of need for their gender journey. Some folks do well with workbooks that help them navigate, some fare better with classes and workshops, while others need one on one support. Whatever your individual level of need is, I am happy to help you fulfill it.

If you’re curious about me, you can learn a lot in my bio, but you can also get a great deal of totally free information from my TikTok, Instagram, or from my blog. And you’re always free to reach out to me with any questions. My purpose is to make this world a better one for trans people.

Breathwork Circle

Breathwork Circle

Join me and a bunch of other amazing trans people for a space where we can breathe together, hold one another, and experience our transness without the interference of cisgender anxieties! Happening monthly, every 3rd Tuesday!

Workshop & Workbook

RESOURCE YOUR TRANS SELF

An experiential workshop on learning to resource your trans self. Community, resources, exercises, learning. Click the button below to learn more and get tickets!

Workshop & Workbook

LOVE YOUR TRANS SELF

A companion workshop to RESOURCE YOUR TRANS SELF - focusing on self love as a verb, skill set, a relationship. Community, resources, exercises, learning. Click the button below to learn more and get tickets!

2 Workshops. 4 Hours of Video Content. 31 Pages of Workbooks.

RESOURCE & LOVE YOUR TRANS SELF

These workshops are excellent on their own, but even more effective together. RESOURCE YOUR TRANS SELF and LOVE YOUR TRANS SELF work synergistically - helping you create a beautiful, strong foundation for tending to yourself in exquisite and powerful ways. Applying the skills from these workshops will lead to more capacity for showing up to yourself, your community, and your life in the ways that you actually want to show up!

What Clients are Saying…

  • Eli helped me during a time I didn’t really have anyone else to turn to in regards to my transition. I was just coming out socially and beginning to transition medically and having him as a confidant and guiding light at that time changed my life. Not sure where I’d be without Eli and his expertise.

    —A Gender Doula Client

  • I gained a lot of valuable support during my one on one sessions with Eli. His calm and understanding demeanor makes him very easy to talk to, and he provided great advice, support, and clarity during my transition process. I know now that I would have been able to do it without him, but he made it so much easier!

    —Micah

  • I gained the guidance and unwavering support of a person who “gets it.” Eli made it so easy to be vulnerable, ask questions, and imagine a different way of being – and as a result I gained the courage to take the steps forward in learning more about myself. [Talking to you] felt like talking with someone who listens, validates, and also challenges you. It felt like talking to the very best kind of friend.

    —Kelsey

  • I am so fortunate to have had Eli officiate my renaming ceremony. From the planning stages through the end of the ceremony, his presence was calm and reassuring. He provided several ideas while also listening to all of my concerns and preferences. The end result felt authentic and supported. Eli held space for me, for the loved ones who were gathered, and for our connection to the land and to trans history.

    —Z

  • Eli has a magic ability to know when to hold space and when to give more direct guidance. When I think about Eli's role in my transition and external progress, I know that he has saved me time and angst. He is also a wonderful human, and I am grateful to know him. As a client, you will be accepted as you are, without agenda or overlying narratives, and supported as you come further into alignment with yourself. Eli would also be an incredible resource for cisgender allies and loved ones.

    —S.G

  • I have worked with Eli as a regular client for the past six months. I am incredibly fortunate to have his support and guidance during my transition. At every step, he has been able to fully meet me where I am with a sense of deep compassion and safety. As a gender doula, Eli blends his extensive knowledge from academia and real-life clients, along with his own lived experience and sharp intuition. I was still in a somewhat exploratory stage when I contacted Eli, and I was a little nervous that services might be too prescriptive. However, it has felt completely natural and customized the entire time.

    —A Gender Doula Client